Avoid the temptation to do too much, too fast, if you want to improve your sleep for the long term
If you’ve ever tried implementing evidence-based cognitive and behavioral techniques to help address the thoughts and behaviors that perpetuate insomnia (or thought about giving them a try!) but found it all quite overwhelming, you aren’t alone!
If you’ve been living with insomnia for a long time (or are just a very enthusiastic person!) you might be tempted to implement every technique right away. Although it’s completely understandable why you’d be keen to do this, it can make things a lot more challenging because although the techniques are relatively straightforward, they can be challenging to implement — especially in the short-term.
So, it can be helpful to take a more gradual approach. For example, if you find that it takes a long time to fall asleep, or you spend a lot of time awake at night, you might start with just one technique — allotting less time for sleep. You might go to bed later and/or get out of bed earlier.
You can then use this to create a sleep window with an earliest possible bedtime and a consistent final out of bed time.
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Should you worry about how long it takes to fall asleep when following a short sleep window? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpM-FMYssuQ
Stick with just this one technique until you start to notice some positive improvements — in this example, this might include a much stronger sense of sleepiness as bedtime approaches, it might mean falling asleep faster, it might mean spending less time awake at night, it might be all of these!
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Even if you have chronic insomnia, sleep drive always wins — you can sleep and you will sleep! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88YtI4WeNsQ
When you start to notice positive improvements and can recognize that you’re making progress, you might then decide to add additional techniques to improve sleep for the longer-term. Things like getting out of bed when being in bed doesn’t feel good, for example.
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What to do during the night when you can’t sleep because of chronic insomnia: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvxuk7v4Ni8
By implementing proven, evidence-based techniques gradually, over time, you might find the process a bit easier since you can become more comfortable with each technique, get some early wins, and build some sleep confidence before implementing additional techniques.
Start slow, focus on the process rather than constantly monitoring for results, move forward at your own pace, and you might find it a bit easier to implement and commit to techniques that will help improve your sleep for the rest of your life.
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When you have insomnia, keep looking forward and avoid dwelling on the setbacks and difficult nights: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQl-aRu5Qrg
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